Life 6 - Three Sisters
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Young Eritrean women like Commander Belainesh have fought in two wars - and been pioneers for women's rights. From the early 1970s, tens of thousands of girls from poor, conservative Muslim and Christian families - previously powerless in their communities - were enlisted by the Eritrean People's Liberation Front and integrated into the ranks as bona fide fighters.
A third of the guerrilla army were women. For 35 years they fought on the frontline and were treated as equals, serving as platoon commanders, tank drivers, barefoot doctors and engineers. By the late 1970s EPLF women fighters had come to personify an image of progress and liberation from oppressive traditions. But from 2002 on, thousands of them were demobilized.
Now they face life in villages where girls must be circumcised, wives must obey their husbands, and children are married off as young as 12. Reports suggest that half the women who fought on the front lines are now estranged from their families and live in abject poverty. Despite a new constitution intended to protect women's rights, the old ways - from bride prices to female circumcision - continue to be practiced.
Across the world, women soldiers like Belaniesh who've literally fought for their rights are struggling to hold on to their gains now that men don't need them. Their plight reflects a growing, controversial academic view that almost all 'liberation struggles' fail to realize their dream. On this count, Eritrea stands as a monument to the futility of taking arms to win rights which economic growth can more effectively fulfil.
For Commander Belainesh, it's time to decide whether her dreams of liberation have failed - and whether it's time to move on.
'Three Sisters vividly and effectively explores issues concerning women's emancipation in the context of the liberation struggle in Eritrea. By examining the lives of three women against the backdrop of poverty and patriarchy, this film critically and forcefully examines traditional practices, including discrimination, female genital mutilation, circumcision, child brides, as well as women's health issues. It has resonance for the struggle by women for equality all around the world. It is a powerful indictment of the role played by women in liberation struggles and their inability to achieve their own emancipation and equality. This movie is a very relevant tool for women and men all over the world who are concerned with gender equality issues, especially those within transitional societies.' Dr. Jeremy Sarkin, Distinguished Visiting Professor of Law, Hofstra University Law School, Member, United Nations Working Group on Enforced or Involuntary Disappearances
'These women's dilemmas may be specific to their cultural situation, but they have been played out in various ways around the world as women struggle for social and economic equality. The film treats these issues with objectivity and sensitivity, which is a refreshing departure from others that filter such questions through the 'us-and-the-other' lenses. In the classroom, Three Sisters will provide rich material for multi-layered discussions about gender, cultural practices, and development.' Miriam Conteh-Morgan, The Ohio State University Libraries, Educational Media Reviews Online
'Life 6 is a wonderfully educational series that presents the viewers with the dilemmas faced by specific individuals in the socio-historical and economic context of their communities in the midst of an increasingly globalized world. The tremendous value of this series is that, in the brief thirty minutes that each episode lasts, it captures the complexities of the lives of those in it as they face Western influence that force them to reassert, defend, or challenge their local and/or individual identities, cultures, governance, wealth distribution, and practices of achieving justice and reconciliation--to name a few...Life 6 represents these issues in an objective and analytical way that will--without question--lead into a discussion and debate about them by academics and lay audiences alike.' Aniuska Luna, African Peace and Conflict Network
Citation
Main credits
Heer, James (film producer)
Heer, James (film director)
McCormack, Declan (editor of moving image work)
Bradshaw, Steve (host)
Bradshaw, Steve (editor of moving image work)
Other credits
Editor, Declan McCormack; music, Ken Myhr; series editor, Steve Bradshaw.
Distributor subjects
African Studies; Anthropology; Conflict Resolution; Developing World; Eritrea; Gender Studies; Geography; Globalization; Health; History; Human Rights; Humanities; Millennium Development Goals; Reproductive Rights; Social Justice; Sociology; United Nations; War and Peace; Women's StudiesKeywords
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Urbanization is making the
rich world, even richer.
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But billions are locked out. They\'re living on
the edge between the rich world and the poor.
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They face tough choices, if
they want to join the party.
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Across most of the world, women having
to fight for their share of progress.
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But it\'s all too easy to fall behind. In the heart of
Africa, women fought a war to liberate their country.
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Now they must decide whether
to liberate themselves.
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[music]
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A bridal persecution in rural Eritrea.
Laws forbid child marriage
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but in many villages girls are still
married in their early teens or younger.
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Women in Eritrea are often depicted
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as Africa\'s most liberated sisterhood.
They fought on the front lines
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in the country\'s 30 year
war of independence.
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But here in Eritrea\'s poor rural heart
land women\'s liberation is a war
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still being fought. And it\'s
being fought most keenly
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in the hearts and minds of the women
themselves including the three
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we\'re about to meet. Once mere victims
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they can now be sisters in a
common struggle, if they choose.
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[music]
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Helping them decide is former
soldier Belainesh Seyoum.
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This was my best friend who was killed by
the Ethiopians. They suspected her that
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she was collaborating the… the
Eritrean liberation forces
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and so they just killed her. At that time you
know I start to thinking why? I didn\'t know
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what was going on in Eritrea about the
liberation forces, the movement and everything.
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So from that days onward then
I started to fight back.
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It wasn\'t just Belainesh who joined the army,
tens of thousands of young women enlisted too.
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Many came from conservative
families, Muslim and Christian.
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For the first time they were
equal partners with men.
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There was no distinction between men and
women. We used to work together in the kitchen
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and we used to fight against
our enemy together.
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Development experts wonder if the war
could be a president for the future.
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Women in Eritrea have actively
participated in the liberation struggle.
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When we know that they also those women
came from very traditional backgrounds.
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And one should ask why at one point in time
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those traditions were more or less set aside
and liberated those women to go and fight.
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Asmara, Eritrea\'s capital.
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Today Belainesh works for the National
Union of Eritrean Women, the female arm
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of the liberation movement. Much of
what she fought for has come true.
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The country won its war
for independence in 1991.
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New laws has been passed granting
women the right to vote, own land
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and choose their own husband not to
mention work in any job they like.
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When viewed from the city,
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Eritrea appears to be a beacon for
women\'s rights and a model for Africa.
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But travel in to rural communities
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as Belainesh does and the picture changes.
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Gash-Barka is a vast drought
prone region bordering
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Sedan and Ethiopia. It\'s already filmed (ph)
corner of the world and one of the poorest.
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Poverty and the status of the
women here are closely connected.
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The women who live here
mostly are traditional,
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85% of them depend on agriculture. So because
of this most of them are illiterate,
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they are unemployed and they are very poor.
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They work in a field plus they don\'t
own it, it is a man who owns it.
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So they don\'t decide on the
production even the women themselves
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believe that the man can decide.
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They believe that girl
child when she reached
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(inaudible) or 7th grade
is not uh… prevalent (ph)
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so most of the time you
find drop outs from school
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or uh… you know, they got married.
This is based on
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the attitudes they have.
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This young girl tells Belainesh she
was a child bride at the age of 12,
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now 14, she has an 18 month baby.
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In the Eritrean constitution
it says uh… a girl and a boy
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has to get married above…
above 18, below 18 is
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uh… is unconstitutional, its not… it\'s not
legal but this is against Eritrean law again.
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[non-English narration]
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Belainesh asks the young girl
why she married so young.
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My mother told me to get married.
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Ancient practices that can be harmful
to women date back centuries.
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So far back that women themselves have
troubles seeing their lives any other way.
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[non-English narration]
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Leyla Adem the first of our three sisters
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is a 22 year old mother of two girls.
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Belainesh\'s women\'s union led the fight to outlaw
circumcision and female genital mutilation.
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But Leyla doesn\'t hesitate to tell Belainesh
that her 3 year old daughter (inaudible)
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has been circumcised. It\'s
good for her she\'s saying.
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Leyla is uh… explaining uh…
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if a girl is circumcised, she… she
becomes a well developed girl
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and uh… on… on the other side she can
marry and she can have a husband.
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This is a secret behind circumcision.
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Soon Leyla\'s youngest daughter Menov
(ph) will have her first birthday.
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Tradition dictates that she too
must be circumcised. But this time
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Leyla have doubts. I am
not sure what I will do
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circumcising girls is part of our tradition.
But recently people have been warning us
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about the dangers of circumcision and
there is also government law against it.
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[music]
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Leyla could face a 10 year prison sentence if
she agrees to have her daughter circumcised
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but so far the law isn\'t
been widely enforced.
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According to the women\'s union more than 9 out
of 10 women in Muslim and Christian communities
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here are circumcised. That\'s
despite all the dangers
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(inaudible) to experts back in the city.
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The child in our country,
the child is circumcised
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was age below one year
so it is very difficult
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even to recognize which part to
cut or which part not to cut.
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And the circumcisers are
also very old people
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uh… who may not be able to identity
that part they want to cut.
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Sometimes there are a lot of
problems, a lot of bleeding because
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its… it\'s done with un sterile things.
Is there is infection
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some times uh… children
die due to circumcision.
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The grim facts are now being passed
along at workshops like this one,
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organized by the women\'s union.
Its part of a campaign of
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persuasion to convince people
of the need for change.
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Belainesh is hoping Leyla would
attend the next session.
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In the mean time Leyla has
a big decision to make.
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[music]
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Half an hour down the road is
the village of Magola (ph).
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Here Belainesh meets another women faced with the
difficult choice between the old ways and the new.
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Amina Ased Awed, our second sister
is a 35 year old mother of 6.
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She is just discovered
she is pregnant again.
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She shows Belainesh the room where all
her children have been born so far.
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I gave birth to all my
children in this bed.
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All six were born here. I
have never gone to a hospital
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and I never had any problems.
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Amina has been lucky. Nationally
there is about a 1 in a 130
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chance of women dying when they give birth,
in the country side it\'s much higher
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not surprising when you hear
what home birth can mean.
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Uh… What Amina is saying
is uh… yeah for me so far
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uh… I didn\'t get any
problems but we fear of
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so many things one is the…the… the women,
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the traditional birth attendants
are they use no gloves at all,
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they don\'t use the detergents for cleaning
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and they use birthing equipment
for more than one woman.
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That means we are labored to…
to be effected by HIV Aids.
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But Amina has a choice.
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In some villages like hers medically
trained midwives are now offering services
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to pregnant women in their homes.
There is even a small hospital
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with a maternity ward, and
trained obstetric staff.
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Evorsalem Zeroy is a midwife and a trainer.
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The midwives were trained how to identify women who
might have problems and they bring them to the hospital
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but many women refuse to
come to the hospital and
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in 90% of cases is (inaudible).
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Choosing between this and a
home birth may seem simple
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but for Amina it\'s an agonizing decision.
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But first her reason sound
a little unconvincing.
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The tradition is for women to give birth
at home and stay inside for 4 months,
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the wind and dust can harm a baby even
kill it. At the hospital they tell you
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to leave after 2 days. Belainesh wonders
if there could be another reason.
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If I go to hospital they will un stitch me
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but after the birth they refuse to do the re stitching.
The stitching is part of an ancient practice
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that makes home birth even more dangerous.
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One of the type of circumcision
is just sowing (ph) (inaudible)
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so it is so narrow that
the child cannot go out
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so even the traditional birth attendants
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has to tear it you know, they have to cut it
because and when they cut it, its not sterile,
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it just crude things like a broken uh…
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glass or something so
infection can happen again.
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Uh… bleeding can happen again so it
is really a life long suffering.
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Amina has had six kids at
home and knows the dangers
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but home birth does mean she can be
re stitched as tradition demands.
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For her it\'s a tough choice.
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We have these beliefs in our culture and I want
to respect them. We are in the middle of this.
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[music]
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Away from the country side
an unusual war memorial,
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time for reflection on what
could have been with out war.
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You know when I… when I… I see this,
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this machineries, this I mean tanks,
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armor vehicles and everything that
is collected here had this been used
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for the purpose of development
of women for example
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it would have been the benefit not
only for Eritrean women but also
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for the women of Ethiopia and the women
of in the (inaudible) of Africa.
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The long war and continued
border conflict with Ethiopia
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have had a devastating effect on
Eritrea\'s economy. In the country side,
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men left their families never
to return, women died too
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just not so many. So 4 out
of 10 families in Gash-Barka
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are now headed by women and their
priority is feeding their families.
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It\'s really uh… a war against poverty,
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that\'s what those women are doing every day.
They\'re trying to fight poverty with earn
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may be small means sometimes and sometimes no
means but every morning that women will get up
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she… she\'ll do everything possible
with in the… the… the her capacity
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to… to push back poverty. But
what if feeding your kids
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provokes disapproval from your neighbors?
Howa Mahmud Haj, our third sister is 29,
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she supports 4 daughters on her own.
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People here believe
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a woman should not go out and leave small
children behind but I have to support my family
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which is why I go to the market
every Tuesday to sell tea
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even though (ph) my neighbors gossip.
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What Howa earns at the market is
barely enough to feed her kids.
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But now she has an opportunity
to grow food for her family.
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A government irrigation scheme captures
water during the rainy season.
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It\'s financed by the
UN\'s international fund
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for agricultural development or IFAD. It\'s turning
more than a thousand hectors of arid land
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in to irrigated green fields.
The potential is enormous,
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sorghum and millet yields
alone could quadruple.
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The challenge has been defined farmers to
do the work. There is about 10% of the
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uh… economically active people
that are serving in the army
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and this is a heavy burden because
these are 10% that is not there
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producing extra food, that is
not there ploughing the field.
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But there are thousands of women like Howa,
poor women who need to feed their children
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and find a way to earn income.
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(inaudible) we decided 30 to 40% of
the land must be given to women.
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Howa\'s got herself on the list.
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She says a hector would provide enough food for
her family and there would be enough left over
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to sell in the local market.
It wont be easy.
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I would have two work loads, the house
and the land. I can\'t be like a man
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who has a wife to take care of him.
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But not being a man Howa
is faced with a dilemma.
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In her culture women aren\'t
permitted to plough land.
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With the rainy season just 3
months away, Howa has to decide,
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will she respect traditional
practices or take the land.
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In her village Leyla too has yet to decide
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if she\'ll respect tradition.
She\'s been invited to a workshop
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organized by the women\'s union to give local people
more information on female genital mutilation.
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Belainesh welcomes everyone but so far
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Leyla is not here. At the
last minute Leyla arrives.
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The war against FGM is still being fought
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but it appears Belainesh may
have won this small battle.
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Leyla is even convinced her father
and other relatives to show up.
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The instructor asks the audience
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why they would want girls
to be circumcised.
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Leyla\'s friend Mirium is one
of the first to speak up.
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Among the Asmara people if a baby girl is not
circumcised, her rights are not respected.
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If she dies she can\'t be buried
with other women in the community.
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If she is not circumcised, she is alienated and being
alienated is the worst thing for a young girl.
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This man raises another common belief.
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In the Quran it\'s written that
a girl must be circumcised.
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The instructor says it\'s not
dictated in any religious texts.
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What he is saying is we are full
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with what god has given us and we will not be
full if you are cutting parts of our body.
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So what we are doing to
our girl child is unjust.
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But this man still wants to
talk about the religious texts.
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Clearly its going to be a long (inaudible).
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If you start enforcing with out convincing
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the… the population or the communities,
uh… its may go underground.
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It\'s not easy in order to… to change
behavior. It has been there for a long time
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so you have to work for a long time
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so that people are convinced.
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After the workshop Leyla returns home,
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a family lunch, a chance to
talk over some of the issues.
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Leyla\'s pleased her father
turned up but still no decision.
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It was important that my father
and relatives were there.
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If they were to continue to attend such meetings
I am sure their attitudes would be changed.
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As for me I can\'t say, I can\'t
make up my mind in just 3 hours.
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Once again it seems it\'s the women
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who have to liberate themselves.
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I don\'t think it is the male,
it may have a started that way
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but I don\'t think now in Eritrea
men are pushing for it.
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I have never uh… heard a
man refusing marriage
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because she is not circumcised. They… they
wouldn\'t even know if she is circumcised or not.
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He wouldn\'t know, yeah, he wouldn\'t know.
So I don\'t think,
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it is a perception in women you
know, it is deeply rooted,
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they said you know, they have a lot of uh…
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attitudes towards this. So I think I don\'t… I don\'t…
I don\'t think we have women will have a problem
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in changing men. It\'s the women who
will have to work (inaudible).
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In her village Amina\'s still unsure
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where to deliver her baby. She\'s come to the
new hospital for her first pre natal check up.
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It\'s a chance to find out how midwives
help circumcised women give birth.
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When a pregnant women comes
for their first time
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to explain that we will unstitch her
for the delivery and then we tell her
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about all the disadvantage of being re stitched.
We do the same thing with her husband.
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When it\'s all over we check in with Amina,
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one last time to see how she
feels about the hospital now.
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The advantage of giving
birth in the hospital
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is that the doctor closely watches you and
most important the equipment is disinfected
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and there is no risk of
disease like HIV Aids
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but still I am not sure.
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Leyla in the mean time
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gets ready for evening prayers. There\'s 5 months
left before her youngest daughter\'s first birthday.
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It remains to be seen whether Leyla
is willing to defy tradition.
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There are so many influences,
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neighbors, family members,
my father and husband,
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then there is our cultural beliefs. In my village
I don\'t know of any women who is not circumcised.
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[sil.]
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[music]
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But Menov could be the first if
the women\'s union has its way.
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Mean time Howa has been invited
to see the hector of land
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that could become hers. The man from the
government has an offer that could help
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resolve her dilemma. Women aren\'t
supposed to plough the land
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but for the first year at least the government will
loan her money to pay for the man to plough it for her.
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[non-English narration]
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If I get land I am prepared for me I am ready
to do what ever it takes for my children.
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Its poverty that\'s making
Howa so determined
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and increasingly its poverty that\'s fueling
the women\'s liberation movement here.
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Due to poverty women are under educated,
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women are suppressed by the community.
They think uh… women are always
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inferior to men and they are
not allowed to do things
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you know, if uh… that women is educated
and she\'s not dependent anymore
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then she can say, yes or no you
know, she can… she can say
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I am not going to circumcise my child,
no I am not going to have all this,
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so she can decide for herself.
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To fight to end poverty and to liberate
women may draw its greatest lessons
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from the war women fought, 40 years
earlier. The evolution came from with in,
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no one came and said to every family you
need to give us a daughter to go and fight.
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The women did it for themselves and now
they are doing something to help the women
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that stayed in the villages. And the message
is the same you cannot push a change,
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the change has to come from with in.
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Belainesh is ready to leave to Gash-Barka,
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she\'s met three women, once victims, now she
hopes persistence in her common struggle.
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What does she believe, they\'ll decide.
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Leyla I believe she will not uh… circumcise
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her second daughter.
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And Amina, I am not 100%
that she is going to deliver
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in the head center, may be 65% will deliver
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in the… in the head center
but 35% I am not sure.
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And the third one, uh… Howa,
she has a cultural pressure
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but she will break away because
she has to come out from poverty
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to send her children to school
as well as to feed them.
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Traditional attitudes doesn\'t change
with in a day or a month or a year.
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It needs a lot of time to change
it, to transform the women
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to a better life. It took
Eritrean women and men
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30 years to achieve independence for
Eritrea. It may take as much time or more
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for women in these communities to liberate
themselves from harmful ancient practices.
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In the mean time fighters like Belainesh
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continue to do battle on the new frontline.
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[sil.]