Letters from our Lives
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Disabled women are often isolated and hidden away, so we know very little about their struggles. To mark the end of the United Nations' Decade of Disabled People in 1992, disabled women from around the globe have written open letters to the world describing their individual plights. In parts of the world where being a woman automatically demotes one to being a second class citizen, being a disabled woman represents a double dose of discrimination. In this moving program, we hear the sadness and the hope of disabled women in Zimbabwe. We share in their struggle to survive on a daily basis and to create a better world for their children.
Not only will LETTERS FROM OUR LIVES foster a deeper understanding of people with disabilities, but it will send an inspirational message to anyone facing a hardship. It will touch a deep chord within all viewers.
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Main credits
Jackson, Judy (film producer)
Jackson, Judy (film director)
Sereny, Julia (film producer)
Other credits
Editing, John Kramer, Craig Webster; camera, Cliff Bestall, Luke Cardiff; music consultant, Nicholas Jennings.
Distributor subjects
African Studies; Developing World; Disabilities; Humanities; Social Psychology; Women's StudiesKeywords
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[music]
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My name is Lizzie Mamvura. I
became disabled at the age of two
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and through a lot of hard working,
I\'ve managed to go through school.
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This year Lizzie Mamvura along
with many other disabled people
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is writing an open letter to
the world describing her life.
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I work as a Co-Ordinator
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for the Disabled Women\'s Movement
in Zimbabwe. I visit Rose
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nearly every day. I bring a food.
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[non-English narration]
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Most of the world\'s 500
million disabled people
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are isolated and ignored.
Disabled women in particular
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are often hidden away and left to cope as
best they can. They are forgotten probably
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and are terrible waste of human potential.
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[non-English narration]
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I get angry when I see they\'re pulling
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circumstances of some disabled women here.
It makes me more determined
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to try to work for change.
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Meet disabled women of Zimbabwe who have been
forgotten for too long. We want you to know
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that we exist.
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[sil.]
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The stories of disabled people are being
collected in London by Rachel Hurst.
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She\'s in charge of Awareness in Action \'92, which
marks the end of the decade of disabled people.
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She intends to take the
letters to the United Nations
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so the details of the faceless
women would be on record.
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The world would no longer be
able to choose to forget.
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There are 500 million disabled people.
That\'s a figure that\'s so large
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that people can\'t start to grasp it. It
doesn\'t mean anything. We need to put
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flesh on those 500 million people and
especially the women as they experience
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a double discrimination. Hi. Hi. Morning.
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Has a fax come?
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The aim of Rachel Hurst\'s Awareness in Action \'92
project is to inform the world about disability issues.
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Letters are pouring in from
disabled people like Lizzie Mamvura
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who want the world to know about
their lives. One of the problems
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about becoming a disabled person or
being born a disabled person is that
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you\'ve all seen as the person who has to
change, you as the individual have seen
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as it were the fault or a sin or
whatever it is. And initially, one has
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this ghastly feeling that one ought to do something
about it. But you can\'t. Now once you understand that
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disability is not that, that
disability is something it has to,
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uh, that requires change within society
itself, then you as an individual
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can be liberated. Rather in the
same way as, uh, for many women,
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when they understand that they
have a right to equality,
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it\'s actually a liberating experience.
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[non-English narration]
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Rose needs (inaudible).
She\'s a mother of seven.
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She\'s disabled and his husband
has run away from her.
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I have spent… I was going to see a doctor
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and going to the welfare authorities.
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Together we\'ve filled out (inaudible)
forms and I\'m still waiting for results.
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Okay. The tragedy is that
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Rose is just one of many
disabled women here in Zimbabwe
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who have similar problems.
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[sil.]
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[sil.]
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I\'ve been involved in the disability
movement in the UK for some time.
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When I first became involved internationally,
I realized that women everywhere
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were not having let\'s say what they
should have, and that made me very angry.
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And it made me feel I have to be very careful to
support my disabled sisters, like Lizzie Mamvura
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who\'s already written to me about
the work she\'s doing here.
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I think I\'m especially supporting
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the disabled women because of the
double disadvantage being a woman
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and having a disability, which I have
experienced myself. I feel we have to learn
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some basic disadvantages and the
oppressions. We come together
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and support each other, and understand how
to combat them. I\'m actually very grateful
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for the lessons I\'ve learned
from these two experiences.
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I\'m very lucky because my daughter Kate
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works with me on the project and was
able to come with me when I travel
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and also to give me the
personal support I need.
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This Bulawayo community
really looks down upon
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disabled women, because they
don\'t think we are women enough
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to be married.
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Because of this, we cannot get
employment and the major problem is
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these women, in spite of them not
being in a position to get married,
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they often have kids and
the men responsible,
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they disappear into thin
air and to bring up kids
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when you have no resources and as a
single parent is very, very difficult.
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[sil.]
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Lizzie and I went to a
disabled women\'s co-op,
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one of the many she\'s helped to set up.
They all are almost full income
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making bobbins for garment factory.
And then they go to the factory,
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and then they put the cotton on. There\'s no doubt that the
disabled women are much more disadvantaged than disabled men.
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It takes different forms in
different cultures obviously.
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It\'s extraordinary to share disadvantages that
we have. There is the economic disadvantage.
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Disabled women are very much less
likely to get jobs than disabled men.
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Yeah. (inaudible) disabled men have a bad enough time.
Disabled people are the poorest of the poor in all countries.
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(inaudible). And on top
of that nearly everywhere
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disabled women lose their sexuality and
are not considered worth marrying.
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I think it\'s the same thing in England. Disabled women are
not seen as able to do what women are supposed to do,
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and therefore we don\'t get married either.
It\'s very difficult.
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We train (inaudible) women
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to be masters of their own destiny,
to fight for their own rights,
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because it looks like most of the disabled
women never had a chance of going to school.
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And as a result, they\'re really very
poor and they\'re not considered as,
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you know, any human beings at all.
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The major problem is
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we tend to feel sorry for ourselves.
As a result,
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we lack confidence.
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But what I\'ve observed is, as women, we
really need to be supportive of each other.
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If only we can manage to do
that, we\'ll do very well.
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[sil.]
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Disabled women in the rural areas,
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they have special problems. All
the facilities are out of reach.
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Hospitals, schools, even transportation
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is really difficult. Where they get water
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is really very far. One has to walk
maybe about five to ten kilometers
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and for a disabled someone,
it becomes very difficult.
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They also have problems because they cannot
work in the fields like other women.
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[sil.]
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Sometimes I\'m struck by the contradictions.
My sophisticated wheelchair feels on show.
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I think it would be much inward. The truth
is that it\'s not much use out here.
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I… I understand you found it
difficult with a wheelchair on here.
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[non-English narration]
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As Smomo Jilli told us,
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she thinks nothing traveling long distances
like this to get to the weekly meetings
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of the rural disabled women\'s group.
There\'s no public transport.
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Yet the women consider their meetings so important
that they make their way as best they can
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and for however long it
takes just to get together.
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Lizzie has started
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36 groups like this all over the country.
She knows it\'s the one way to stop
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the extreme isolation of disabled
women in the rural areas.
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Through sharing their experiences,
they can start search for solutions
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in the same way as other disabled
people\'s groups all over the world.
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(inaudible) members of the women\'s group
(inaudible) branch. My husband\'s relatives,
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they didn\'t like me because I\'m disabled.
I couldn\'t carry water in my head,
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because I am a disabled woman. So, you
know, you find that they don\'t help you.
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They don\'t like you. You
know, husband can go out
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during the night looking for, you know,
proper women who are not disabled.
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So we have that, you know, that exchange, that
really we are not happy with our families
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and our neighborhood. So although
my husband did loved me,
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but my husband\'s parents didn\'t want me.
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So it\'s very difficult to bring up
children if you\'re a disabled women,
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you know, unwanted, unliked, you
know, loneliness, you know…
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Yes. It\'s really killing us. Yeah. Yeah.
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[non-English narration]
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Hey.
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Hello.
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Hello. Traditionally in Africa,
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it\'s believed that children are born
disabled because the mother or her ancestors
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had been practicing witchcraft.
Disabled girls like these
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seem as bad omens and are often abandoned.
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I think people are
frightened by disability.
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There is a centuries-old subconscious message
that comes from religion and folk tales.
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It says the disabled person is being punished either
because they\'ve sinned or the family members sinned
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or even their ancestors have sinned in a
past life. The disabled child is seen
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as the embodiment of that sin.
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[sil.]
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If kids don\'t get stimulated, they
become more and more passive,
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uh… particularly the ones
with, umm… (inaudible)
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that are in contracture
and then they become
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more and more stiff. Institutions always
create or they make any disability
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there is increased because there\'s no
integration. There\'s no normality.
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There\'s no, um, choices.
Children have no control
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over their lives at all. They don\'t choose
what time to get up. They don\'t choose
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what to wear or how to behave. They\'re not
being asked in any way at all to conform
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to ordinary everyday life.
And it\'s… it\'s not like
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the people should say that they\'re not capable
of it and it\'s quite clear that if given time
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and the correct help,
they are capable of it.
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They have capacity to enjoy.
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They have a capacity to do something.
All of them. It\'s only a little bit
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they\'ve got some, and that
capacity should be used.
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[sil.]
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Such a waste. Terrible waste
of human beings. Isn\'t it?
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[sil.]
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Hello. Is that Department
of Social Welfare?
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Could I please talk to the social…
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the head of the department? Umm…
Phoning in connection with a lady
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called Rose Dube. She\'s a mother
of seven, and she\'s having
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serious problems. She\'s disabled and
the husband has run away from her.
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I was wondering if you could put her on your
list, but she needs immediate attention.
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[sil.]
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I feel very much upset during
the first few visits to Rose.
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I used to cry because I didn\'t know what
to do though I could not cry before her.
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But when I get home, I
really used to cry, because,
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uh… I was frustrated. I couldn\'t think
of anything in the way to get the things
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even if I phone and approach the people
who are supposed to be helping me
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though they know that there is laws.
There was very little help coming
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and that really upset me.
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[sil.]
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He divorced me because I am disabled.
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He said I am useless.
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So how can he stay with a
useless person you see?
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Didn\'t he try to help you?
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No. Not at all.
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Very cruel. He was used to hit me,
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pulling that leg. It was painful.
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Why would he do that?
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He was saying you better go too further
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because I can\'t stay with a disabled woman.
You better go.
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My kids, thinking of my kids,
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where to go with them?
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It\'s very difficult.
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My kids are am looking at me.
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I haven\'t got a plan.
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Where to go?
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What are we going to eat?
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I am not working. I am disabled.
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No one is going to employ me.
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[sil.]
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Three quarters of women with disabilities
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are in that situation of having
kids, looking after their children
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as single parents, not really being in a
position to do anything. And as a result,
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these children are disabled one way or the other
because they cannot receive the education
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in the same way as the mother.
They cannot get enough food
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just like what has been happening
to the mother. So a lot of things
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surrounds the children of women with
disabilities who are single parents.
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[sil.]
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All these human I met like Rose,
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they\'ve given me strength. They\'ve
given courage. As a result,
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I have been in a position to sort of,
umm… be in a position to cope with
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my own life regardless of
the problems that I have.
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So each time I would go out really feeling so
low in bed and then I\'ll meet these women,
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and I thought no, why should I waste
time crying and what have you?
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The only thing that I should do is, you know, to make
sure that my kids get everything that they want.
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And I thought maybe if I
work with disabled women
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and myself being disabled,
it could be an incentive.
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And I still feel maybe with a little that I\'m
doing, I could encourage women, other women
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to sort of, you know,
fight their way through.
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[music]
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One of the things that
we\'re doing is collecting
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from individual disabled people
letters or pictures or poems,
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anything they want to write
about, about themselves.
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And I want to collect hundreds and
thousands and millions of letters.
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And I want to take them to governments and I want
to take them to the United Nations to show that
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we really do exist.
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In developing countries like this
where the movement is strong
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and where women with a vision of Lizzie have
helped develop income generation projects
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and where the women have also become aware of
their problems and are starting to solve them,
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they are in some ways more advanced
than we are in the developed world.
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[sil.]
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Thank you very much. What is happening with the
women here in Zimbabwe is quite exceptional.
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I\'ve not come across certainly in
developing country anything like
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such a strong movement. It\'s much
stronger than it is in Britain.
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It\'s not a battle we\'re going to win today;
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maybe not even tomorrow. But we
will as long as women keep up
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the fight and keep going. Doesn\'t matter.
It\'s very good (inaudible). Very good.